Going beyond pros and cons to get to the heart of tough decisions

Wrestling with a tough choice? Trying to weigh the pros and cons but going in circles? In this episode, I’ve got a systematic approach to decision-making that can bring some welcome clarity to complex choices.

Whether you’re standing at a personal or professional crossroads, or debating different solutions to a problem, this framework will help you understand both the rational and emotional elements of your decision-making process–helping you move forward with more clarity and confidence.

Key Takeaways

  1. Quantifying vague benefits or drawbacks (“more time” vs. “2 hours per week”) can help clarify costs and benefits of different options.
  2. We sometimes conflate past decisions with current ones, allowing unresolved feelings about previous choices to cloud our present decision-making.
  3. What feels like indecision may sometimes be unprocessed emotions about what we’ll need to let go of – even when we’re clear about the right choice.
  4. Resistance to a logically sound choice often signals important emotional considerations that need attention.

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Decision Scoring Spreadsheet

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